How To Make A Great First Impression?
This blog will help you to make a great first impression. Profit from easy to implement image consulting tips + Grab your FREE checklist at the end of this article.
KEEP IN MIND: Most of these tips apply also in online situations.
Science Of First Impressions
I find the whole science of first impressions so fascinating. When a person meets you for the first time their brain makes several snap decisions about you in just 7 seconds.
Actually it takes only a tenth of a second to decide if the person is trustworthy but as long as 30 seconds to make judgements of a persons attractiveness and intelligence.
However a myriad of other decisions are made within 7 seconds, such as judgements about your age, competence, education level, lifestyle, income, social class, to mention a few.
Latest studies have shown that we can work our way out of a bad first impression but, as it is with so many other things, it takes a lot more energy and time than just to make it right the first time.
I made this collection of tips that will help you take your personal brand on a next level that exudes confidence and professionalism.
How To Improve Your Personal Image On The Spot
1. Be Nice
Smile. People who smile appear more likeable and trustworthy than their poker-faced or grumpy counterparts. Don’t over-do it though. No grinning and no awkward or deranged smiles, please.
Make it all about the other person. Ask questions and let people tell about themselves. Remember that life rarely is about you.
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People will remember how you made them feel. Kindness is a deeply underrated form of art. Work on your listening skills to perfect this. I can guarantee that it will make you more likeable!
2. Be Professional
Be mindful about your body language. Keep a good posture and resist the urge to cross your arms or legs. Keep your hands visible, unless you want people to think that you have something to hide.
Offer a firm handshake. Make it last about 3-4 seconds because you want to engage with people without appearing creepy. At this point you have already made a first impression and people have not even heard you speak yet!
Use clear and professional language online and in face-to-face situations. Stick to the point and respect other people’s time.
Avoid using fillers such as um, ah and like in your speech. They show immaturity and hesitation. Emojis in your writing will make you more likeable but use them sparingly. Overusing them or getting way too personal might work in your disadvantage.
Get to know people in advance through social media. They will be doing the same so make sure that you too are making a good first impression throughout your social media. Work on your digital presence with these easy to implement image consulting tips for a stellar online you.
3. Look The Part
Dress for the part. People have expectations and your job is to deliver. Looking frumpy, dirty or un-kept is rude and unprofessional. Your appearance will take you a long way, even if you don’t want to admit it.
Maintain good personal hygiene. I can’t stress enough the importance of this! There is simply no excuse to neglect your personal hygiene in any possible situation.
Don’t be afraid to use personal styling services to take your style to the next level. The most successful people in the world are open about their challenges and they know when to hire help.
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4. Don’t Be Creepy
Maintain normal eye contact throughout the conversation but under no circumstances stare at people. Losing eye contact mid-conversation implies that the other person is making you bored or that you have something more important in your mind.
Avoid at all cost sizing up people from head to toe, peeking at cleavages, or letting your mind wander while looking at someone. It’s creepy, rude and condescending.
Allow people to have their personal space. In general people feel uncomfortable when someone in breathing down their neck or being too close.
Be aware of your nervous tics such as drumming, scratching yourself, clicking your knuckles, playing with your hair etc. They make you appear awkward and uncomfortable, which may make other people feel uncomfortable too.
5. Don’t Be Rude
Learn to control your facial expressions. Avoid squinting your eyes, wrinkling your nose and keep your mouth closed when you are not talking.
Use confident, friendly and positive language. Don’t put people on the spot and solve conflicts privately. Remain professional in difficult situations.
Treat everyone with the same respect you’d like yourself to be treated with. This applies to interns, receptionists, cleaners, delivery personnel, hospitality staff and maintenance.
Have an upbeat attitude in general. Don’t drag your feet or bother other people with your problems. Nobody’s life is perfect and you never know what the other person is going through.
Let your energy and zest for life be contagious!
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This article was originally published on 6th February 2018 and updated on 8th October 2020 with a better structure.